
Our whole family has fallen in love with a big black lab mix that my daughter brought home as a rescue. We have been around black labs before, and we loved them, but we had never had one of our own. Max is honestly the sweetest, smartest animal I have ever seen. We bred poodles many years ago, and had many other animals down through the years. I never dreamed we would have so thoroughly enjoyed this big lug of a dog! This morning, some thoughts came to mind about some life lessons we can learn from a Labrador retriever.
This idea for this article came to me when I looked out my bedroom window upon arising to glance the big pile of toys Max had brought down in the driveway for the Mail Lady. His favorite toys were represented there. It was kind of an offering from Max!
We are Ebay sellers, and we live on a huge hill. If you are a city dweller, you would certainly deem this a mountain! The postal service leaves our mail in a box at the bottom, but when we ship out Ebay packages, we impart them and they come up the hill and get them. We put them in a plastic tub container and place it in the driveway. This plastic container signals to Max that Nicky, the Mail lady, is coming.
Max Loves NICKY! Nicky LOVES MAX. Max sits down by the tub in the driveway, where he does not normally ever sit, until Nicky gets there. You see, Nicky brings dog bones for Max! She gave him one or two as a safety thing (dogs-mailmen-you get it? ) when she first started coming up here for the mail. She won his affection, and he started looking forward to it. It is astonishing that he only requires one or two repeats of any signal or information to understand it. She came one time and didn’t have any bones, and Max was so disappointed. She then proceeded to keep a regular stash for Max! She goes to the store for bones for Max if she is out of them!
Nicky seems to love the way Max is so aroused to examine her. He doesn’t just wag his tail when she comes, but he wags his whole big body! In the course of a day, it is really nice for someone to be glad to see you, you know? And, if you are a mail carrier, dogs often just automatically hate you! When she pulls up this hill, she knows that Max is celebrating her arrival.
I was thinking about how he was sharing his favorite things with her . That might not even have any significance to her or anyone else, but I knew what toys he had chosen to take down there. He has a lot of toys, and there are certain ones that are very special and significant. His Bob the Builder Ball, his Winnie the Pooh plastic block, and his stuffed Nemo fish are three of his favorites. He was giving of himself to express his affection for Nicky. He was doing what he could, even though the casual observer wouldn’t have recognized it as that.
And, you know what, all Nicky does is give him a kind word, call him by name, and throw him a bone. Of course, the casual observer also might miss the significance of the trips to the store for bones for Max when she might be pushed for time or short of cash. You can hear her outside just talking and laughing at Max. One time I heard her say, “Max, I haven’t seen you in so long!” She doesn’t seem to mind him getting on her clothes even on days he isn’t as clean as he should be, which happens more often than not! ( He likes to perceive the woods and chase critters….one little black and white critter made him smell real good!)
However, isn’t a Labrador retriever just like a person in that regard? Usually, all you have to do is give someone a little attention, and you greatly enhance their life! You have made a new friend.
You’ve heard the phrase, “Throw them a bone.” It usually indicates a thoughtless disregard for someone. Sometimes it implies treating them like a dog! You are just placating them with some little gesture that means nothing to you. You are “throwing them a bone” to get them to do something you want, or just to get them to shut up and go away! The truth is, though, that just a small gesture that doesn’t cost you noteworthy in money or time can make all the difference for someone else, if we just take the opportunity to do it.
You don’t realize how noteworthy just a little attention can mean to someone until you are the one who has felt very disregarded and invisible. When someone calls you by name, you suddenly feel like you are human. How many people do you know who could use a little human treatment right about now?
It’s ironic to talk about learning these particular life lessons from a Labrador retriever. We must learn how to make someone feel human from a dog! As the Max Factor Cosmetics commercial used to say, “Thanks,Max,”
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